Bdsm goals

Added: Isabella Lafond - Date: 21.01.2022 13:48 - Views: 18065 - Clicks: 3782

We should all have goals in life and we as Dominants or Masters need to set goals for our property being Submissive or Slave. The goals come from trainingand again this is just my point of viewwhat works for me may not work for another Dom. What makes our world so awesome is we can be who we want when we want. Our level of communication is just incredible. As with anything though we all have to take steps. A new Dominant or Master has to take steps, it is a progression progress.

Where things blow up or get out of handan inexperienced Dom tries to jump in with both feet in the fire and it blows up in his face. Just as we set goals for our property we have to set our own goals for us. Where do we want to be? What type of relationship do we want? Do we want a submissive or a slave? Where do we want to be a year from now? These are steps that we need to think about before we start walking. Yes that even means putting a plan into place and following that plan. What is more important is when you set your goals you stick to themand one by one you complete each goal, it is not rocket science and it is much easier than most make it out to be.

The downside of everything is it takes work because nothing is handed to you, no one can complete your goals for you. We put those who serve in front of everything else or anybody else and that includes family. Honesty and integrity first and for mostwe want respect but we have to show it first. We must be truthful from the start. If you start out your relationship with a lie then your whole relationship is a lieand you can never go back.

One of the first things we tell someone we just met isyou must always be truthful, always tell the truth no matter what. Although one is Dominant and one is Submissive it is not a one way street. RulesStructureProtocols and Goals they all fall into place. They key to what I just stated also falls under consistencyand being consistent on a daily basis. You want someone to follow youyou want someone to submit to youyou want someone to turn over control, well buddy you gotta step up to the plate and promise you can and will step up and you will guide them every step of the way.

When we train we train to fit bdsm goals needs, we train to fit our wants so it is only fair we give back more than bdsm goals take. Goals are set for self improvementgoals are set to help in everyday life. Goals can be small or as big as going back to school. Goals can be from getting up at a certain time, completing small task through out the day. All bdsm goals should be met with positive reinforcement, that a girlmaybe some other small bdsm goals. Some not all but some come with problemsbe it self esteemhome lifedaily life or just smothered in personal problems, maybe depression or other types of illnesses.

The two should sit down and discuss goals and why they are needed. Goals how ever should not be a punishable offense. Goals and positive Reinforcement does not equal being punished. You know I have spoken about how I had roommates prior to meeting Ariannna. I did so mainly because I wanted the company someone I could sit down to dinner with. One the female who is a very dear friend was and is very sick, and suffers from depression, a lot of things going on.

She head no insurance not physically able to work, so I set goals for her. I walked her through each and every process. First I got her the medical attention she neededI then made sure she went to counselingmedication for her depressionthen a lawyer and last disability. All of these were goals and they were started and completed. In the end she messed somethings up and lost somebut in a way it was her fault and in a way it was not. Her Boyfriend is worthlesshe is like a screen door on a submarinehe gives no supportdid not even care until the day she was receiving her check from SSI.

Helping her is more of a burden to him not to mention the mental abuse. I did what I felt I had toand while there were road blocks we completed each taskuntil things bdsm goals into place. If we set goals then we should be there to helpwe should be there to guideand give advice when needed. You cannot treat a goal like a rulebecause it is no longer a goal. Goals are meant for self improvement. What we as Dominants or Masters want is to see ours grow inside and out, we want to build ours upeven if it means just maintaining their healthmaking sure they are stable.

Once you reach that goal you bdsm goals to continue support, so we can maintain that leveland again that comes with positive reinforcement. So if you are in a relationship and there are no such plans in playand your relationship is just about rules and being punishedthen maybe your best interest does not come into play…. You can follow any responses to this entry through the RSS 2.

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